LIVING WITH REALITIES

    People live with their families for a long time. They spend a great amount of their lives with their families. When they have the chance to live without their families, they do not usually reject it.Most university students choose to live with their friends, not their families. There are some differences and similarities between living in the dormitory and living at home with family.However, similarities are fewer than differences.

    Living in the dormitory has some different points from living at home with family. First of all, they learn to live without the support of their parents so they can understand the realities of life.While students who live with their families spend their money unconsciously, the other students who live in the dormitory spend it in a thrifty way. Due to being distant from their families, they could not ask for money from them frequently. Nevertheless, the students who live with their families ask for money from their families whenever they need. Secondly, students who live with their families have fewer responsibilities than others, for they do not have to cook meal and clean their rooms.Nonetheless,the students who live in the dormitory generally have to clean their rooms and  cook their meals themselves because they do not have a person who will do these duties.Thirdly,students who live in the dormitory have more powerful friendships than other students who live with their families because students living with their families do not spend much time with their friends. In contrast, students living in the dormitory are always doing everything together. As a result, they know each other well and they can have powerful frienships.

      There are some similarities between living in the dormitory and living at home with family. If you live in the dormitory, you have to obey the rules. For example, you must come to the dormitory at a certain time. Smilarly, you ought to be your home at a certain time,too.They think that being outside in late hours is dangerous for you,so they get worried about you. Therefore, they create some rules to protect you. Another similarity is the study environment.In dormitories, there are special rooms for students which includes studying desks, and these rooms provide students to work in a silent environment.Likewise, you have your own rooms to study silently in your houses,too.

     In conclusion,it is clear that there are some differences and similarities between living in the dormitory and living at home with families,but similarities are fewer than differences.We understand that living in the dormitory improves us in terms of gaining the spiritual responsibility and living at home with families needs to obey the rules like dormitories.I think living in the dormitory prepares us to life because we take more responsibilities.